feat(observer): M-Obs 4-7 — widgets, dashboard, docs, integration example

M-Obs 4: @shade/widgets React library
- ShadeProvider context with observer URL + token + theme
- useShadeState (polling) + useShadeEvents (SSE) hooks
- 7 widgets: IdentityCard, SessionList, PrekeyStock, RecentActivity,
  ServerStatus, FingerprintCompare, WidgetCatalog (meta-widget for
  user-selectable layout with localStorage persistence)
- Self-contained CSS via inline styles, no external CSS conflicts
- Light/dark/auto theme via tokens

M-Obs 5: @shade/dashboard standalone SPA
- Vite + React app composing all widgets into a full debugger layout
- Login screen with token persistence to localStorage
- Build script copies dist/ to @shade/observer/dist/ for embedded serving
- 211 KB JS bundle (66 KB gzipped)

M-Obs 6: Documentation + integration example
- READMEs for @shade/observer and @shade/widgets
- examples/06-observer-dashboard runnable demo: spins up prekey server +
  observer, runs Alice ↔ Bob conversation loop, dashboard at :3901
- Updated root README and docker-compose.yml with observer integration

M-Obs 7: End-to-end verification
- StateAggregator now drains buffered events on subscription, so
  identity.initialized fires before observer construction are still seen
- Verified live: snapshot endpoint returns full state, dashboard serves,
  401 without auth, sessions/messages/ratchet steps all tracked

220 tests passing, 0 failures.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

packages/shade-dashboard/src/main.tsx

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+import React from 'react';
+import { createRoot } from 'react-dom/client';
+import { App } from './App.js';
+
+const container = document.getElementById('root');
+if (!container) throw new Error('Missing #root');
+
+createRoot(container).render(
+  <React.StrictMode>
+    <App />
+  </React.StrictMode>,
+);