feat(hardening): M-Hard 6 + 7 — PostgreSQL backend + production server infra

M-Hard 6: PostgreSQL Storage Backend
- @shade/storage-postgres with PostgresStorage + PostgresPrekeyStore
- Drizzle-style raw SQL ensureClientTables / ensurePrekeyServerTables
- All tables prefixed `shade_` to avoid collisions in shared databases
- DELETE ... FOR UPDATE SKIP LOCKED for concurrent OTPK consumption
- Tests skip gracefully without SHADE_TEST_PG_URL, run against real PG when set

M-Hard 7: Production Server Infrastructure
- Structured JSON logger (logger.ts) — SHADE_LOG_LEVEL configurable
- Health endpoints (/health, /healthz, /ready) — Kubernetes-friendly
- Prometheus metrics (/metrics) — counters, histograms, middleware
- Graceful shutdown with SIGTERM/SIGINT handlers + store close
- Production Dockerfile with non-root user, healthcheck, multi-stage build
- docker-compose.yml example for Dokploy with optional PostgreSQL

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Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

packages/shade-storage-postgres/tsconfig.json

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+{
+  "extends": "../../tsconfig.json",
+  "compilerOptions": { "outDir": "dist", "rootDir": "src" },
+  "include": ["src"]
+}